Husband Facing Extreme Ostracization Of Wife?

Are you a husband whose wife is facing extreme ostracization by your family and friends? Is she facing estrangement from her own family? Is she alienated from her offspring or from her parents, too? Understand what is happening to her is not normal… and that chances are you are the actual target of venom that your family may bear towards her if you two started dating or married and you appear happier.

Families with Cluster B folks making up the lot tend to raise children who see Psychopaths gaggle up and they think nothing of it. The lead aggressors set the tone; victim response dictates whether or not the prey assaults or ostracizes for fun or for profit.

A wife crippled socially and emotionally by cruel people mocking, gaslighting her and about her, and left with not a friend or person in the world she can call, confide in, or trust is the goal social predators who bear extreme overt or passive-aggressive malice towards the husband strive to create. If her faith in the feeling of the husband for her can be shook, all the better for them in their bizarre and anti-social opinion.

If prey can be driven to harm themselves or away — made to feel isolated, unloved, profoundly disliked, utterly worthless as a person, and less than a human being the individual seeking to harm a happy couple get their wish.

Everyone is made lesser by their behavior and no amount of apology or wishful thinking makes the experience worth having or parties involved at any level better for it. Punisher loses the opportunity to be a good person when good people are harmed; good people lose time, genetic happiness, and health.

What is the poor Golden Child husband to do when his wife is a Scapegoat for family dysfunction? What’s he to do when she self isolates, stops being herself, and withers away to a shell of her former self — the girl he used to be in live with before his family and her own took her entirely psychologically, emotionally, and socially apart?

It depends on the man.

If he’s smart enough to think through what alienation has cost him…

Getting mad enough to do whatever is necessary to ensure he and she steer clear of those people and that he shows zero favor towards anyone who excludes her is appropriate but will go no where if he cuts her off from the actual world.

If he still sees and speaks to people who lie to and about his wife, breaks bread with them, and carries in a jovial relationship while she sits alone for holidays and Sunday night family dinners, chances are she will fail to thrive and the marriage will end lackluster.

If he and she make different plans with their time, make different friends who know you together as a couple, and adore you both then the marriage as a social support structure has hope. Plan trips, do projects together, don’t keep pushing things like date nights and planned vacations off.

Holidays are likely to be incredibly hard on the husband +/- missing his family — with the wife needing extra care and social support. It’s the opposite of romantic and destroys healthy bonding, being forced to deal with someone being actively and willfully abused by family.

Refuse to make light of patterns people into hurting and mistreating others are doing. Refuse to consider anyone a friend who would be so hurtful.

Take a moment to think though what has happened.

If those folks didn’t exist, would you and your mate be otherwise happy together? If the answer is yes, stay married. Make different friends after taking extra time to do fun things together and see how you feel after another ten, twenty, thirty, or forty years go by without any personal involvement with those people.

Be kind to each other especially on the hardest days. Know if you are meant to be together it’s going to take effort not because your love isn’t real, but because it’s something of value that requires ongoing care.

And if you are my husband, thanks for being my partner. My life has not been easy but I hope in the end at least you and I will agree it was a life worth leading.

If you were in my life and betrayed my trust then chose to pretend I hurt or harmed you by you lying to me or about me or if you treated me terribly… truly, poff off.

My husband is a non-drinking alcoholic and I don’t care that because he doesn’t go to the bar and get sloshed or pay everyone’s tab to party makes you guys embarrassed or somehow justified being angry. I didn’t drive my husband to drink and being mad at me because he stopped is a dumb reason to hate me.

Hate me for telling him to self educate about Alcoholism? Hate me for suggesting people who care about one another display caring?

Chances are you are one of the people FISA AI no touch medical ops I designed to help targets avoid and victims to recover from after you get done interacting.

And if you are a child who doesn’t like who mommy dates, get over yourself. Try asking like an adult for assistance you need such as for a hug or a pile of money rather than stealing and start treating your mother figure like a person with the very same rights as any other human.

No woman should be made less for bearing a child by that child. No mam should be treated like crap for being a step father and no man or woman should be treated like shit for being a child abuse or neglect victim either.

Bottom line, when one person is awful to others it’s their problem… but a group that engaged in parental alienation tactics and tries also triangulating to break up someone else’s marriage the hospitality abuse level is 9 hyper magnified by mobbing and or by gang stalking behavior when it comes to AI Eval by Dante.