On Actual Friendships. Actual Friendships (as friendships of quality that touch our genetics) involve individuals who love, like, and celebrate the other while receiving the same warm embrace of social, emotional, spiritual, and physical love [in the Platonic sense, not referring to romance.
While Actual Friendship is key to successful long term relationships in life, romantic love, and business, learning to prioritize spending quality time with actual friends or alone in comfortable self sustaining composition is key to becoming a happier, healthier, wise, and more friendly but detached person in general.
Detach from the collective that doesn’t get or celebrate you as a person. Reattach your own mind and body to learning to impress yourself first and suddenly all the imagined voices of doubt and social critics who heckle stop being opinions to spend time on trying to swallow.
Listen to yourself. Find that person then seek out those who bring value to life as social support people. Focus on simply associating with people of quality who value and appreciate time they spend with you interacting — and withdraw from anyone who feels the need to try to diminish you in your own eyes or in those of other people.
Actual Friends are a blessing from Spirit.
Finding them may feel like finding missing needles in a haystack at times but somewhere they are out there.
To have a friend, be a friend.
Be there for yourself first, then be there for others.
When either of you meet with success or failure, Actual Friends — if they are lucky — get to spend at least some or part of moments in life that are memorable while having the privilege and opportunity to enjoy making memories and reflecting on shared as well as independent life experiences as well as lessons together.
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