Every Estranged Parent fears this…
That they hear from an Adult Child who left home before age 30 and after decades of dreading them being hurt or estranged that we no longer have the biological medical based capacity to continue to see the best in them like we did before they ran away.
The human brain is not even fully formed before that age. Kids like mine — making decisions while profoundly gaslit by Parental Alienation aiming social predators and too young to be read in on intelligence cases — end up bounced out of career paths that are considered PRIME CHERRY for betraying their family before country.
Why are IC agents in multigenerational ops not read in about parents assignments? Because any child who spends time with others who lie, cheat, steal, triangulate, badmouth parents, alienate affection, and or who try to get rid of — say — people romantically interested in their custodial parent simply can NEVER BE TRUSTED.
That is who people should fear — gaslighters and anyone prone to abuse of parental hospitality.
My greatest fear was never that I would end up with a place of my own. It wasn’t thinking my husband and offspring would not get along in a step family role.
My greatest fear was my life would be happier without my adult child in it. And that if they did contact me or find themselves in dire straits that I would not be able to muster up enough affection or cash to sate needs or demands in such a way that got a simple THANK YOU MOM or was ever appreciated.
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