If you are related to the Plantagenet line or to the Morgan family, chances are you know one or more people in your immediate environment who has what is known as a Schizoid Personality affectation that is likely complicated by their low EQ and High Functioning Autism.
They really aren’t STUPID.
They feel insulted rather than assisted by textbook style help.
Make helpful commentary to make life easier? Noting will get you attacked socially by one and or abandoned by them faster.
Offer them social courtesies like hospitality will get you mocked.
Offer them inclusion in yiur life they are likely to immediately respond in detail with a list of just exactly how worthless they think you are — not only to them buf to everyone else.
The best thing that can happen to you if a Schizoid person is in your life is either you or they move so you are far apart.
They despise your devotion to them whether they are a parent, troubled sibling, and or any age child.
Schizoid kids tend to present with flat emotions. To alleviate boredom, many turn to actively engaging in Conduct Disorder type affectations.
While many Schizoid adults find avoiding people who know them or who are interested in proffering them social support, others prefer to seek out people like them — then trauma bond and engage in behavior that to folks with more sociable nervous systems tend to avoid.
Expect Alpha beta behaviors, in that they bur up to control other people emotions like a Nurtured Sociopath, sub par performance academically and professionally, limited to no actual friends apart from casual situational aquaintences, no interest in participating in family activities, no interest in caring for children they created apart from occasional pangs of curiosity to see what they look like, a deadbeat parent affectation towards anyone they normally would be involved with caregiving, no fee,ing of compassion for anyone who cares about them, and no interest in being loved as a person (conditionally or unconconditionally apart from use based necessity).
Schizoid people pretend to be Tops in kingdoms they create. If their subjects are devoted, tis the Subjects they hate. As such, they are actually bottom feeders in disguise.
A Schizoid is a person who takes routine social advantage of the efforts of everyone else, gives nothing back, and proffers only criticisms rather than helpful commupentary or social solutions when it comes time to contribute back to society or to relationship.
CBT and or Distance Therapy provide the best level of support.
Parents of Schizoid Kids often feel like they are expected as a biological parent to sever affection for a Schizoid Child in their foul tempered demand. Loving them from a distance wirh zero expectation for productive interaction is the safest method to deal with them… but if you love them, doung so feels about as easy as being asked to amputate your own heart.
See Facebook.com/Discard-Pile-Parents for support.
And for the record if you wonder if they ever miss you, liked you, or loved you they absolutely don’t.
Anyone they meet who does know you will be profoundly gaslit, alienated from you by them, and if you try to proffer that person support… as Recruited Flying Monkeys they are the most likely people to verbally or socially to TRASH YOU while under the errant presumption that you did something dasterdly.
Schzoids don’t want people knowing them personally or trying to support or get to know thrm and their partners.
They crave time with Sychophants on occasion and people to drink with, to party with, to use or to buy and sell heavy drugs to or from, for income (job), or for casual oftentimes non-monogamous sex.
But those people fill needs of a beta impersonating a top. They are not actually Alpha as true Tops Guard flocks.
As such, they technically present as Collapsed Psychopaths — influenced by their desire to control the circumstances around them. That often includes the crushing of or extreme malice towards authority figures like parents as well as outright rejection of relationships with people like grandparents and or step parents.
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